(As part of the “Musings of Military Missions on Mondays,” I am writing a fiction story to show what many of our military wives go through regularly – lonliness. See my post last Monday for part 1 of the story.)
Jamie’s eyes followed the doctor out the door of her hospital room. It can’t be! She thought. No, no, no! This just can’t be! Her heart sank as she tried to recall what the doctor had said about her newborn baby girl.
“It’s a lung problem,” he told her. “She seems to have a small hole in the lung, and she wasn’t breathing well on her own. Though she appears to be doing alright at the moment, she needs to stay in NICU for awhile, so this can be taken care of.”
Jamie struggled to remember everything he said, but it all seemed so confusing, and there was no one to talk to the doctor for her. She bitterly recalled that she was here – alone. So very alone.
Her eyes filled with tears as she thought of her baby, struggling for her first breath and being unable to take one. To think that her own daughter would be strung up to tubes, wires, and monitors just to survive!
To make matters worse, she had been unable to contact her husband deployed in Iraq. Her heart longed to tell him, somehow, that their baby had been born; to let him know that she was having troubles, and desperately needed her father’s prayers. She yearned to hear his deep gentle voice as he spoke to God in prayer and to know everything would be all right. If he were here, he could go make sure the baby was being taken care of, and could ask the doctor the questions she seemed unable to think of.
A dark cloud settled over the young mother as she lay in her bed recovering from her emergency cesarean. She tried to pray, but words simply would not come. She knew God knew her heart, and that He understood her heart cry. She lay in the dark softly weeping until she heard a nurse come into the room.
“Are you doing ok?” the nurse eyed her keenly.
Jamie wiped her eyes and smiled wanly. Brushing back a wayward hair, she replied, “I’m ok, I guess. Just a touch of the baby blues.”
The nurse nodded understandingly. “Hey, are you the one whose husband is gone?” she asked, wrapping her blood pressure cuff around Jamie’s arm.
“Yeah,” Jamie replied, tears threatening to spill over again. “He’s in Iraq, and I have no way to get in touch with him.”
“Do you have anyone who can help you when you go home?”
“Not really. I’m new here, and I don’t know anyone yet.” Jamie answered.
The nurse stopped and looked at her inquisitively. “Really?”
“Really,” Jamie replied flatly.
The nurse paused for a moment, thinking, and then patted Jamie’s arm. “You rest, now. We’ll see what we can do to get some help for you,” she muttered as she went out the door, but Jamie had already drifted back into a fitful sleep and didn’t hear.
The next day, a different nurse seemed to make it her mission to get Jamie moving and out of bed. “The more you move, the faster you heal,” she told her. Jamie wasn’t sure if it could possibly be true, but this nurse didn’t take “no” for an answer. Though the pain was incredible, Jamie bit her lip and slowly, ever so slowly stood, leaning on the IV pole. With help from the nurse, she slowly shuffled out the door and made her way to the nursery.
Her heart beating fast, Jamie wondered, What does my baby look like? Is she going to be ok? To the young mother, the short corridor seemed a mile long. Finally she arrived at the window of the Neo-natal Intensive Care Unit. Her heart seemed to stop as she scanned the glass incubators, her eyes finally coming to rest on a little bald red baby with the namecard “Martin.”
She was completely unprepared to see her own baby tangled in a mass of wires, tubes, and monitors. There were tubes in her nose, and a tiny IV in her foot. Several pads on her chest relayed information about the baby’s heart rate and breathing to the cold monitors blipping by her incubator. The whole scene seemed so surreal and unnatural, yet here was her baby, struggling for life.
Suddenly the baby squirmed, whimpered, and began to cry the most pathetic little cry Jamie ever heard. The overpowering desire to pick her up and cradle her flooded through her. It seemed to most brutal torment to watch her own baby cry and be helpless to do anything to help her. Jamie burst into tears.
Oh, God, she prayed, closing her eyes and steadying herself on the windowsill. You have said that Your grace is sufficient. I need a little bit of that grace right now. The baby needs a lot of that grace, Lord. Please help us!
Back in her bed once more, Jamie reached for her Bible, and with trembling hands carefully thumbed through the well-worn pages. She remembered a saying from her pastor in the church she attended before moving. “There is balm in the psalms,” he would say, adding, “When your heart needs healing, head for the psalms. God graciously poured out His love for us there.”
Her eyes quickly scanned the pages and came to rest on Psalm 37. The words of verses three and four seemed to leap off the page directly into her weary heart. “Trust in the Lord, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed. Delight thyself also in the Lord; trust also in Him; and He shall give thee the desires of thy heart. Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in Him, and he shall bring it to pass.”
Jamie closed her eyes. Before going into the hospital she had read all the books and taken childbirth classes. No, this was not at all the way the birth was supposed to go! The fear, cold and clammy, was there in the delivery room, and the dark and forboding loneliness, oh, such loneliness! Then there was the frustration and helplessness of being unable to do anything to help her little girl. But God had been gracious and strengthened her and given her His presence, which was more important to her than anything else in the world. And He knew what was best. She knew she could trust Him.
There in her lonely hospital room, as Jamie poured her heart out unto the Lord, He filled her soul with that calm soothing peace that comes only from a deep abiding trust in Him.
Meanwhile, on the other side of the world, a commander received a message from the Red Cross. Carefully unfolding the paper, he wiped the sweat from his brow and read:
“Sgt. Martin’s wife delivered a baby girl and needs her husband to come home”
The commander sighed a deep sigh, shook his head, and grumbled, “Who do they think they are? I can’t just send any soldier home every time his wife has a baby! We’ve got a war to win!” He took out his pen and hastily scribbled his response.
“Permission denied,”
and handed the paper back to the messenger, who saluted smartly and quickly went out.
….to be continued